Thursday, April 27, 2006
Ponder PonderTessa once told me,
"If love is "bing tang hu lu",
then crushes and infatuations are spices of life."
I have been thinking why,
she responded to my blog.
And i had a long time thinking,
thinking of what she said the other day.
Hmm..
If crushes and infatuations are spices of life,
then the more we should avoid them.
If they are spices of life,
they will attract us to get into love.
When we get into love,
we will end up with the same outcome.
In short,
crushes and infatuations = love = "B.T.H.L."
Just my penny of thoughts.
Monday, April 10, 2006
Responding to belin's blog
Yes, i'm pessimistic. I rather be pessimistic than optimistic. To think of all the wonderful miracles that MIGHT happen in a r/s, why don't look from the other side of it? Being happy in a r/s is just a temporary issue, but when someone gets hurt, is it worthwhile?
I admire your uncle though, but not all "bing tang hu lu" are sweet in the inside. Only lucky ones will get sweet fruits. So i don't not expect a sweet fruit and carry on with what i have. I don't desire much, i don't expect much. "The greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment"
LOL, i very pai seh. Beilin say i gentleman. I don't know what to say abt this. lol..
Talking about the big scale bbq, i still prefer being with my cirle of frenz which i feel comfortable with. Imagine going there, not knowing anyone. I look at them, they look at me. I smile at them, they smile at me. How awkward. LoL.. Nahz, i don't go, they rest want to go i also won't stop them. Anyway my weekends are more for family. My poly frenz asked me join badminton on sat, i also reject. Anyway enjoy yourselves on sat BBQ.
Monday, April 03, 2006
kit chan "Live our dreams" (TeamSingapore song)On this land that we share
Where we build our hopes and dreams
To become the best we can
It’s what life really means
Live our dreams
On this day that we sing
With our hearts beating loud
As our nation comes together
And as one we stand strong and proud
Let our voices rise to the clouds….
I see victory with your unity
I hear happiness in perfect harmony
There is no place that I’d rather be today
Where the spirit shines and runs through you and me.(X2)
With our dreams it’s not a game nor the reason why we came
It’s a nation of dreams, one golden dream
We see victory with your unity
We hear happiness in perfect harmony
There is no place that I’d rather be today
Where the spirit shines and runs through you and me. (X2)
There is no place (there is no place!)
That I’d rather be today
Where the spirit shines and runs through you and me
It’s our time (Take your place!)
For us to shine (Let us race!)
Now is the time to live our dreams….
Sunday, April 02, 2006
Making me sickMany types of approach.
-Straight-forward,
-Flirty,
-Fickle-minded
These 3 types are the most common approaches.
For straight-forward approach.
When someone expresses to you,
you will get shocked.
Then you don't know what to do,
how to react at that moment.
Next you will start rejecting,
might even avoid the person.
Maybe that's how i will react bahz.
For flirty approach.
When you first get the signal,
you will try to double confirm if its true.
During the process of it,
another signal tells you it isnt true.
*Stop day-dreaming,
you think you so good people will like you?*
But after a while,
you get the hint that she really likes you.
What to do lehz?
Am i really day-dreaming?
Look at it this way,
if she goes ard doing it.
Everyone will thought she likes them,
they will think that you are rivals.
It will just spoil friendship,
and even fights?
I think i will just go isolate myself,
don't get distracted.
Fickle-minded approach.
A girl likes you,
she tells you how good her friend(boy) is.
She says to go out with you,
yet she sms her friend all the time.
When you ask,
she says you are sensitive.
When you don't ask,
she says you are not concern.
I also don't know how to deal with it.
My radar is receiving some flirty approach,
its from a girl who is 2 years older.
She was my working friend before,
and now a friend.
I don't like it,
i don't like anything more than friends.
I just totally give up on relationship,
making me sick.
